Not giving up
Why do people feel so much pain that even taking their own life seems better?
Giving up is not the answer to life’s problems. It may seem like a way out for people from the current situation that they are in. But take a minute to think about it this way:
Life is not easy. Nor is it fair.
I knew that. So I always tried to have reasonable expectations. I was always a calm person who focused on solutions more than situations. And if something bad did happen, I genuinely did not let it bother me. I was a person who would spend the least amount of time needed on a problem, and then focus on the solution.
But some things are not like others.
One thing I’ve learned is that it is not easy to be kind and strong at the same time. It’s possible but it’s not easy.
I have always tried to be kind to every single person my whole life. I’ve made an obligation to myself to be truthful and fair in all situations. I believe my moral values were shaped by the people I was surrounded by, my religion, and in my belief that kindness and respect is deserved to anyone regardless of their religion / social / economic situation.
But kindness can become a weakness if you are not careful. It can let you bring your guard down. In the face of life's challenges, it is often tempting to throw in the towel and surrender to the overwhelming circumstances. However, it is during these moments of hardship that the virtues of perseverance and resilience come to the forefront.
To not give up and to remain firm in our convictions, while still maintaining kindness and compassion, is a remarkable display of strength and character.
Life is an unpredictable journey filled with ups and downs, twists and turns. It tests our mettle and pushes us to our limits. It is in these moments of trial that we are presented with a choice: to succumb to adversity or to rise above it. Choosing the latter requires a steadfast determination and an unwavering belief in our ability to overcome obstacles.
To not give up means to have the courage to face adversity head-on. It means refusing to be defeated by setbacks and failures. Instead of viewing them as insurmountable roadblocks, we see them as opportunities for growth and learning. Each setback becomes a stepping stone towards success, teaching us valuable lessons and strengthening our resolve.
Being firm in our convictions requires a deep understanding of our values, principles, and goals. It means staying true to ourselves and not compromising our integrity, even when faced with challenges or temptations. It is an unwavering commitment to our beliefs, standing firm in the face of opposition or criticism. It is a demonstration of inner strength and resilience that commands respect and admiration.
However, being firm does not equate to being harsh or unyielding. It is essential to maintain kindness and compassion in our interactions with others. Firmness should be tempered with empathy and understanding. It means being assertive without being aggressive, standing up for what we believe in while respecting the opinions and feelings of others.
Kindness is a powerful force that has the ability to transform lives. It is the act of extending a helping hand, offering support, and showing compassion towards others. It is not a sign of weakness but rather a display of strength and character. When we are firm but kind, we create an environment of trust and respect, fostering positive relationships and building bridges of understanding.
In a world that can sometimes be harsh and unforgiving, kindness is like a soothing balm that can heal wounds and bring solace to troubled hearts. It is a reminder that we are all interconnected, and our actions have the power to uplift and inspire others. Kindness is contagious, and by embodying it, we can create a ripple effect of goodness that transcends boundaries and spreads positivity.
The journey of not giving up and being firm but kind is not an easy one. It requires self-reflection, self-discipline, and a commitment to personal growth. It demands that we constantly strive to be the best version of ourselves, even when faced with adversity. It is a continuous process of learning, adapting, and evolving.
In conclusion, the path of not giving up and being firm but kind is a noble pursuit. It is a testament to our inner strength and resilience. By choosing to persevere in the face of challenges and maintaining kindness and compassion, we not only empower ourselves but also inspire those around us. It is through this unwavering commitment that we can make a positive difference in our own lives and in the lives of others. So, let us embrace this journey with courage, grace, and a firm belief in the power of kindness.
